'Awaken To Your Twin Flame - Part Two

"Lovers do not finally meet somewhere ~They are in each other all along." -- Rumi

"Is your heart open, light and accepting?"

We started this conversation more than 18 months ago, when I was personally thrust into what seemed like a centrifugal  force of emotional, spiritual and leadership expansion.  The Universe was clearly moving me into a space, to acknowledge where I needed to be,  which is the path of service and authentic self-expression.  During this period of time, it has been eye opening, while surrendering to exotic depths of joy and enthusiasm for life; indulging, without losing my sense of self.  So now, as we look at the next points of this conversation, I have even more compassion for those of us who are intertwined with our Twin Flames, and also those of us who are still seeking to find them. May we continue . . .

4.  Your Heart Must Be Open - Many of us have had the opportunity to meet some pretty amazing people in our lives. Many of those connections were with our SOUL MATES, who assist us in touching base with our inner denial, and helping to stir our internal flame.  How many times has your lover made you believe they were the one?  Only to find out, that the relationship was mostly superficial and lustful to say the least.  However, we had to make their acquaintance, to begin a journey to deal with the emotional issues we needed to resolve from our childhood, and for many of us, our past lives.

As African-Americans, we have so many layers that we must recover from, for us to begin to realize that we are love.  Unfortunately, we have been taught to seek validation from outside ourselves.  We place our value on things and people, that have no sense of who we are, as a person.  Subsequently, very few of us have spent time dealing with matters of the heart. According to an article written by Norma Hicks, there are 12 levels of the heart that we must awaken; and right now, most of us are just at the 3rd and 4th levels - (http://www.esotericonline.net/profiles/blogs/levels-of-the-fourth-chakra). As we move through this Earth Plane, we are learning more about what it actually means to be a participant in this thing called life. And as we partner with our Twin Flames, we have the opportunity to automatically enhance our capacity to grow and expand, into the next version of our highest self.

5. Building Together - As you read the points in this article, you can see by now that what is most prevalent about meeting our Twin Flame, has to do with the work we can get done together, in a much easier and more efficient manner.  Let us not be mistaken about what this work looks like.  We are not here to see how many houses we can build, or how much money we can make or how many children we can have.  Our work is about the Soul, and the Soul is all about Love.  

I rarely meet couples that radiate love.  It seems like they want to demonstrate how beautiful they look together, or how obedient their children are, or how polished their home and furnishing appear; yet nothing of this has to do with being love. The true essence of love, doesn't need anything, it just is.

In this case, the building we are emphasizing, has to do with the work that we can do inside our family, our community, our society, as well as taking care of Mother Earth. These are the aspects of living, that have been neglected over time. Now, we have the presence of mind to join forces and remember who we are and why we are here in the first place.

6. Free To Be - The energy of Twin Flames operate from a base of one, therefore, if we have worked through our own emotional wounds, we wouldn't have to possess, control and dominate our relationships.  It has been my experience that many Twin Flames tend to meet when they have are already in a relationship. They tend to start out being confused, as to why they would meet someone when they are already with a life partner.

When this happens, there is a very wonderful opportunity to work out what is best for all parties involved.  It's a chance to demonstrate delayed gratification, consideration and kindness, which are all higher aspects of our personality.  When we are able to pull back and truly look at situations and weight the outcomes, only then can we truly get past the lower energy vibrations, that keep us locked in the bottom regions of our chakras.

Granting others their own personal freedom is the hallmark of Twin Flame relationships. Simply because, it is natural that every single time, they will find a way to be with one another.  And even still, it takes time to mature into the space of true freedom, where love is concerned.  Therefore, take your time and be patient with yourself and the development of the relationship.

[Next Article: "Awaken to Your Twin Flame" - Part Three. We will embark on points 7-10.]

If you are currently experiencing any heartache, or emotional distress regarding a breakdown in your relationship, here are a few remedies to help you balance your energy and your emotions.

• St. Johns Wort Tea is a herbal infusion that will help to bring your energy up and relieve any feelings of sadness or depression.  You can usually find it any place that you find healing teas and herbs.

• Bach Flower Remedies - Pine to deal with regret, resentment and forgiveness and Agrimony which relates to the ability to feel joyfulness and the enhance your ability to confront others.  You can find these products at any health food store or online.

• Talk to someone that can be objective and listen for your need to release and expand.

• I highly recommend the book, "Spiritual Partnerships" by Gary Zukav

Thank you for reading my blog.  Love and Light to you . . . We are ascending!

Rita Stewart/Mu Shemsu-t

Executive Life Coach

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773-969-6211

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Love Making Kundalini

WARNING:  What you are about to read is designed to change the way you view sexual activity for the remainder of your life.  I recommend that you read through this article at least twice and then share it with your mate.  Sex is a very pleasurable experience and the unfortunate part is that most of us miss the magic that is the truth hidden within the pleasure.  Enjoy!

About 15 years ago I began teaching a class called “The Magic of Kundalini”.  Sometimes it was offered for couples and other times it was presented to single women who were on a mission toward spiritual cultivation.  At that time I also began to notice how music videos cheapened sex and created excitement around sexual arousal causing many of our young people to want to participate in the experience without understanding the its power.

Imagine that sex is such a powerful act that the most ultimate creation is manifested; two people generate a likeness of themselves.  Now that is absolutely awesome!  However, we can harness this very same creative juice to manifest empires and New Worlds.  And it’s just as simple as overstanding the kundalini energy.  Many people in the elite class use these practices for their benefit and now it’s time for us to use this same juice to maximize the dreams and goals we are choosing to manifest in the world.

Let us start by overstanding the difference between ordinary sexual activity and tantric sex:

Ordinary sex: For most people the sex act is a release of tension. If a man feels an overflow of sexual energy, he usually wants to release it as quickly as possible in order to relax. However, if he ejaculates, there will be a waste of energy.

Tantric sex: When the sexual act is practiced with meditative awareness and without loss of the seminal fluids, there is no loss of energy, and the act is not followed by fatigue and a feeling of the blue. On the contrary, following the Tantric sexual act vital energy is multiplied and conserved. When both partners melt with each other, vital energy is exchanged between the masculine and the feminine, and the energy build to higher levels. 

The Indian master Osho says: 'If you are not in a hurry to finish the act, it by and by becomes less sexual and more spiritual. Sex organs also melt into each other. A deep silent communion happens between two body energies, and then you can remain for hours together. This togetherness moves deeper and deeper as time passes. But don't think. Remain with the moment deeply merged. It becomes an ecstasy, a samadhi, cosmic consciousness' (Osho: Book of Secrets, p. 468). 

Don’t get me wrong; sex is not the only way to raise this energy.  There are several ways to raise kundalini – dancing, exercise, sports, and praising are a few that come to mind immediately.  Each of these activities can be done alone or with others.  To fully utilize the power of the kundalini energy one must be present and in the energy of the desired outcome they wish to manifest. 

Love making kundalini offers several different components of manifestation that aren’t available in the individual or group effort.  The couple has the opportunity to create together the vision they wish to bring forward through their relationship.  Once the vision is shared, the energy of love adds exponential power, then pleasure adds another level of power and now you multiply that by two.  Depending on the energy of the couple, miracles can happen almost immediately.

What is so interesting about the time period that we are currently living through is that so many of us have been able to link up with our twin flame which provides an even greater power to use kundalini energy for manifesting desired outcomes.  Just imagine how much fun we could all have visualizing peace in our communities, then making love to someone that we adore and then step outside a few hours later to a community of calm.  We definitely have the power to do this while at the same time creating material comfort and fulfilling lifestyles.  The only obstacle we must get beyond is the outdated conditioning that our minds have been inundated with through media, education and our childhood environment.

Just in case you may need assistance developing goals for your relationship here are a few to get you started:

• My partner and I provide love and assistance to our circle of family and friends.
  
  
• My partner and I experience material wealth so that we are able to live full and creatively.
  
  
• My partner and I embody the power to heal and teach others.
  
  
• My partner and I are capable of achieving outstanding results in all that we endeavor.
  
  
• My partner and I experience love, joy, forgiveness and healing in every aspect of our relationship including our circle of family and friends.

For those of you interested in becoming well versed in this subject matter here are a few books I highly recommend:

1. The Tao of Health, Sex and Longevity by Daniel Reed
2. The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Dr. Joseph Murphy
3. How to Build Your Sexual Muscle by Walter Beckley

Love Making Kundalini Presentation

Emptying The Vessel

A friend of mine received a beautiful bouquet of roses the other night from a gentleman she was going out to dinner with. I had a nice glass vase for her to put the flowers in but it had been sitting for a while so there was residue of dirt, mud and dust on the bottom of it. As I began to run water into the vase to clean it, the dirt inside created mud. It took a few minutes before the glass container cleared up enough to complete the wash and then add fresh water for the roses. Have you ever attempted to put something into a full or even dirty cup, vessel or pot of some kind without cleaning it first? I’d like you to consider that many of us do this with our emotional energy all the time.

When you are seeking to add goodness to your life but you haven’t taken the time to completely heal from some damaged version of yourself, then the most that you can get is the mess mingled in with the fresh. When this happens we experience what many of us refer to as drama. This is particularly true in our relationships whether it’s with co-workers, family members and even our love mates. Let me give you an example of what I am talking about.

I had a client that really wanted to find his life partner. His biggest complaint was that women he dated were insecure, needy and possessive. So after a couple of coaching sessions I asked him if he had any of these qualities within himself. He resounded with a loud, “Not at all.” He then began to give me evidence of how successful his life had been in the creation of money, business, material possessions and his exotic lifestyle. When I asked him if he openly shared his business success with any of the women he had dated in the past, he said, “I don’t think they would be able to handle it.” And there in lies the “red flag”.

Many times the relationships we experience in our childhood with the adult members of our family tend to color the way we view the opposite sex. If our mothers were bossy, overbearing, needy or possessive with the father, then men tend to make up in their minds that women can’t be true partners. The same is true with women who grow up without fathers; they tend to make up that men will always leave. Both of these cases are held as truth in the hearts of the individuals so all they ever experience is the outcome of their beliefs.

Now just suppose we are able to create a paradigm shift which allows our parents to be in the perfect relationship they were in with their spouse regardless if they stayed together or not. Imagine that they subconsciously chose the partners they were with based on what they needed to experience for their spiritual growth? When we are able to observe where people are without drawing conclusions about “why” they are, this will give us more room to integrate the lessons of love that we are to learn from our childhood relationships.

For each of us to experience life in the present moment we must attempt to release old beliefs, patterns and thoughts that keep us from having what we desire. We have to empty the vessel so that the good stuff can get in. Otherwise, we tend to only attract the same people and situations over and over until we learn to integrate the love lessons that are strongly leading us to love unconditionally whether or not our parents have learned to do so or not.

Your first thought is probably, “that is easier said than done,” and I would definitely agree with you. However, when you begin the practice of examining yourself in light of outdated beliefs, thoughts and patterns you will get in touch with your true authentic self who is completely unlike anyone you have ever known. You will experience the joy of being someone exciting, different and creative without always insisting that what you are doing is “right”. Many people do the same thing over and over again to prove that what they are doing is the way it should be done, whether it is working for them or not. They are always looking to say, “See, I told you this would work.” And in the meantime, they have missed many amazing opportunities to grow, expand and contribute to a vibrant world that can only be experienced and not captured.

Breathe into your stomach then slowly exhale, now look to see what beliefs or patterns you are holding on to that are no longer serving you. Are you willing to let them go? Are you willing to experience the best version of yourself? Are you open to being in the flow of your highest good? When you make it a regular practice to “empty your vessel”, your life will become more meaningful and far more adventurous than you could have ever imagined. And when someone gives you roses you can put them in a clear glass vessel where their true beauty will be transparent to all.

Take a moment to view this presentation it will assist you in your efforts to empty.

http://prezi.com/w7u8ngdlga2c/

~~ Love and Light

www.mushemsut.com

Those eViL pEoPle

Growing up in a household of females where each one of them had issues of self-esteem, money troubles, man problems and PMS, being the youngest, I received more than my share of grief and abuse. As a matter of fact in my twenties when I began doing work to heal my soul from the trauma of my childhood, every memory I had reminded me that no one loved me. I searched long and hard for just one clue that I was cared for, and it did not exist within my family circle. At the age of 28 I ran across a book by M. Scott Peck called, The People of The Lie: The Healing of Human Evil.

The People of The Lie, discussed the phenomenon of evil from the position of psychiatric medicine, since Dr. Peck himself was a psychotherapist by trade. He pointed out in his work that evil people have a tendency to be lazy by nature. They refuse to do anything that is outside of what they are already doing for themselves. The official definition he gives for evil is the “unwillingness to extent one’s Self for the benefit of another person”. Can you already see who the main victims are for evil people? Of course, it would be those who are unable to take care of themselves. In our society, that would be children, animals and some elderly persons.

Do you ever notice parents have children an make strong attempts to have them conform to their lifestyle, their plans, their agenda, and their thinking? Yet, as soon as the child is old enough to challenge these directions they become a burden (this usually happens around the age of 2). Many parents are unwilling to allow children to expand the parent’s capacity to nurture, love and serve. Usually parents don’t think about serving the child. If only we could see the honor attached to serving a young body, whose spirit has returned to Earth to continue on a mission they were unable to a complete during a previous lifetime. Imagine the love we would find in ourselves if we allowed our own hearts to expand in the exposure of new ideas, adventures and imaginary happenings. So we narrow our participation to work, discipline and providing for the material necessities in life.

Now I am not saying that parents should not be concerned with making sure the material comforts of living are provided. However, it has been my observation that we have been so consumed with our material existence, that we don’t bother with the spiritual and emotional nurturing of ourselves; and for sure not fpr our children. I find it somewhat a lost opportunity for bonding when young babies have to be put into childcare that is not the parent, grandparent or other loving family members. I have a concern about this because evil people tend to lurk around those who are easy to abuse and dominate. The only intention of evil people is to put the light out, damper the spirit of those that are too happy and joyful in life.

Dr. Peck says in his book, that evil people do not want to be shown their own darkness or the constricted places in their heart, therefore they work to dominate and control those individual’s whose light shine on their evil ways. And the only way we can assist individuals in this mindset is to love them. Imagine that, love is the healing anecdote for evil people. When I got to that part of the book I was able to realize that the evil encounters I had experienced in life had actually taught me how to love and be more loving. It took several more years before I was clear about how to love my Self. However, I have also been able to see that both evil and loving people are attracted to the light. So if you are a spiritually conscious person, be mindful that you will attract evil people and it may seem like they are trying to destroy you, and it isn’t personal. This is their way of being. They don’t know any other way to live their life; this is what they have been taught and what they currently know. So if you allow them the opportunity to be in your space and see how you operate, they actually have a chance to learn more about living spiritually.

Anytime a person tell me they believe in God, I can see the degree to which they operate in that belief by how they love and be loved by others. God, spiritual essence, is all about love and nothing else. So to be evil to someone because they were evil to you, is not a loving way to be, nor is it healthy for you. If you don’t have the capacity to be around such people I suggest that you stay clear away from them. As a matter of reference, studies have noted that negative people have far more influence on positive people than positive people have on negative people.

Before I end this blog, let me be responsible in saying that everyone that has a negative attitude or a negative disposition is not necessarily evil. There are clear factors that demonstrate evil tendencies – (1) Laziness (2) Unwillingness to extend one’s self for the benefit of another (3) Selfishness (4) Pretence – which is why they are called “people of the lie.”

If you are experiencing issues with evil in your own life let me suggest that you read The People of The Lie, and then send me an email so that I can assist you in processing this information for your own spiritual development. We are not here to change others we can only change ourselves. Subsequently, if we want to make a difference in the life of others, we are to be the example of love.

Thank you for reading my blog and I look forward to our expansion and an increase in our flow.

Hetep!

~~ Mu Shemsu-t
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