1.
Create a Perpetual Space of Gratitude
What does it feel like to have a grateful
disposition? When the challenge of hurt
has occurred, have you ever encountered any individual who seeks the opportunity to
appreciate, instead of get angry? Can
you imagine what the energy would be like to share space with such a
person? This is the first step needed to
create a Prosperity Vortex for you and your mate. In order for energy to flow freely, there has
to be peace; to create abundance add joy.
2.
Acknowledge Good Flow all the Time
Our daily practice is to notice how goodness is appearing in our life. This can be very exciting because the more you pass the test, the more things are going to show up to make sure you have mastered it. In other words, when your bills arrive in the mail, make this a joyous occasion. Do you know what it means to have good standing in the Uni-Verse? Being able to have goodwill associated with your name on all levels, open up more and more avenues for you to receive. So pay Mr. Bill with great joy, and acknowledge how easy it is to sustain, maintain and take care of your family. Never complain about money or finances to your mate. If the flow is blocked, work on yourself to create an opening.
Our daily practice is to notice how goodness is appearing in our life. This can be very exciting because the more you pass the test, the more things are going to show up to make sure you have mastered it. In other words, when your bills arrive in the mail, make this a joyous occasion. Do you know what it means to have good standing in the Uni-Verse? Being able to have goodwill associated with your name on all levels, open up more and more avenues for you to receive. So pay Mr. Bill with great joy, and acknowledge how easy it is to sustain, maintain and take care of your family. Never complain about money or finances to your mate. If the flow is blocked, work on yourself to create an opening.
3.
Speak and Listen Like they Are your Best-Friend (they really are)
May we all reframe from FIXING one another, when we come together as a couple;
work on yourself. When you love someone,
and if you have the opportunity to create a loving and living space with your
Soul Mate or Twin Flame, create the space of acceptance, that allows them to
grow and evolve freely at their own pace.
Allow them to have room to share with you, in the same capacity you give your
best buddy. This is going to take
intentional effort sense many of us come from the belief that men and women
can’t be friends. In my own circle of
love and light, my person has just as many men friends as I do women. And I learn from all of them.
4. Make a List of THEIR Top Qualities
What are the top qualities you admire and appreciate about your mate? Keep them written down in a couple of
different places so that you can use them as a diversion when you find yourself
negatively focusing on his/her weaknesses.
We all have flaws and in many different areas. However, if we spend all of our time pointing
out what’s wrong, that will zap the energy right out of the vortex and create
poverty instead of prosperity.
5.
Discipline your Mind to Seek the Positive
SPLAT!! Just like that, something
happens and you are so full of anger, resentment and hostility. Well according to ABRAHAM-HICKS* you have 17
seconds to move out of that negative vibration, before you signal the Uni-Verse
that you want more of the same. The
practice that my person has learned to apply in this particular situation is to
breathe and focus on what is hurting me in the present moment? When we focus on what hurts, with the intention
of bringing reasoning, logic and responsibility to the matter, the situation
becomes a little easier to handle. The key word in this process is to take responsibility for the part you played; no
matter if you deem it as you fault or not. "The 17 Second Rule
6.
Create a Daily, Weekly, Monthly, and Yearly "Wealth Ritual"
a. Create a Financial Vision Statement and Read it together regularly
b. Make a song together (Mantra) and sing it to keep out of negative flow
c. Design Sacred Alters (together or individually) for your Visions and Dreams
d. Create Vision Boards together, they are highly effective
Make this a fun activity. One thing that
my second husband and I did on a regular basis was empty our coins into a jar
at the end of the day. Then during the
year we would periodically do wealth meditations for about a week and then at
the end of that time, take the contents of the jar to a place where someone
could find it. There are other things
you can do as well. Get $50 worth of
singles and place dollar bills inside books at the library. Doing this in the children’s section is
fun. Leave an enormous tip when the two
of you go out on a date together when your vibrations are high, loving and
magnanimous. Tithing is a weekly ritual and it doesn't necessarily have to be to a church. Who feeds you spiritually? The premise here is the
intention you bring to this process, and that you do it together. Also, make sure you have money set aside to
splurge on a luxurious vacation for the two of you. Wow! I can feel the flow increase already; can
you? More ideas:
a. Create a Financial Vision Statement and Read it together regularly
b. Make a song together (Mantra) and sing it to keep out of negative flow
c. Design Sacred Alters (together or individually) for your Visions and Dreams
d. Create Vision Boards together, they are highly effective
7.
Be of SERVICE to Your Mate Without Expecting Anything in Return.
Now to make this happen you have to take total responsibility for your own well being. You will need to know how to generate your own energy to the point that you don’t need anything from your mate. Yet, everything they give is like gravy. Too often people think that a relationship is about what the other person is providing, when actually it's about your capacity to be generous. If you can’t give and receive freely to your mate, then you are creating a negative flow in your relationship. Maybe you need to make sure you are with the right person for you.
Now to make this happen you have to take total responsibility for your own well being. You will need to know how to generate your own energy to the point that you don’t need anything from your mate. Yet, everything they give is like gravy. Too often people think that a relationship is about what the other person is providing, when actually it's about your capacity to be generous. If you can’t give and receive freely to your mate, then you are creating a negative flow in your relationship. Maybe you need to make sure you are with the right person for you.
8.
Surround them with a Golden Light of Prosperity**
This may seem a little advanced; however we
are sending energy and vibrations to one another all the time. With this process we literally take on
raising our own vibration and then visualize our mates being surrounded by an
image of prosperity that has them lit up from head to toe, on the inside and
out. **Golden Light of Protection Article by Mu Shemsu-t
9.
Generate High Vibes when they are Pre-Occupied
It’s interesting to see how so many of us feel so deprived when our mates are
focusing on things they love, that may not have anything to do with us. The idea here is that often times we have
projects, assignments, jobs, and even work that requires us to be away for extended
periods of time. This is where you can
demonstrate how emotionally and spiritually mature you are. If you feel the need to always have company
when your mate is not around, then you need to do more work on loving
yourself. You may want to start with
getting to know yourself a little better ,so that you can appreciate yourself
from a higher vibration. Also, at what
capacity are you living, that you have to focus so much energy on what someone
else is doing, instead of what you are doing? I am not talking about other love
interests (that’s an out of integrity conversation, which tends to block the flow).
10. Provide a Soft Spot When They Fall
It’s interesting to see how so many of us feel so deprived when our mates are
focusing on things they love, that may not have anything to do with us. The idea here is that often times we have
projects, assignments, jobs, and even work that requires us to be away for extended
periods of time. This is where you can
demonstrate how emotionally and spiritually mature you are. If you feel the need to always have company
when your mate is not around, then you need to do more work on loving
yourself. You may want to start with
getting to know yourself a little better ,so that you can appreciate yourself
from a higher vibration. Also, at what
capacity are you living, that you have to focus so much energy on what someone
else is doing, instead of what you are doing? I am not talking about other love
interests (that’s an out of integrity conversation, which tends to block the flow).10. Provide a Soft Spot When They Fall
11. Write
Love Notes, Letters, and Poems to One Another
And finally, the written word is proof that
love flowed through you to them. If you
haven’t written love notes to your mate, and something happens that take you out
of one another’s vortex, then it would be even more challenging, to remember the love
that you created together. Find every
reason to write them. And please don’t
wait for Hallmark Holidays. Your spirit
is always reminding you of their love, so why not be vulnerable enough to say
so? Any excuse, will do just fine.
Here are other alternatives to stimulate your Prosperity Vortex:
1.
Meditate together
2.
Read to one another
3.
Bathe each other
4.
Massage one another
5.
Breathe together
6.
Dance together
7.
Increase spontaneity
8.
EFT together
9.
Play time is all the time
10. Spiritual
Sexuality” Love Making Kundalini by Mu Shemsu-t
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