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Thursday, December 3, 2015

Winter Solstice 2015 - Authentic Power Regeneration




The Seasons Change with Purpose

The Winter Solstice
One of the greatest tricks you can play on a person, is to fool them with time and space. Unfortunately that subterfuge was played on the world when the ancient 13-month calendar (13 moons in the Universe) was changed to 12 months.  Up until that point, it was the practice of our ancestors to flow with the movement of the planets, stars and the galaxies.  The alignment of the soul was the first order of business when a child was born, thus the Natal Chart was quickly created.  
In present day, we have been conditioned to believe that astrology is as trivial as playing monopoly (it’s just play money).  Although this is a great subject to delve into, I just want to take one aspect of this material and give you an idea of how to use timing, meditation and the Uni-Verse, to establish synchronicity with your Soul.

Winter Solstice happens each year on December 21 – 24.  The Wikipedia provides the definition of the Solstice as an astronomical event that happens twice each year when the Sun's apparent position in the sky reaches its northernmost or southernmost extremes. The name is derived from the Latin sol (sun) and sistere (to stand still), because at the solstices, the Sun stands still in declination; that is, the apparent movement of the Sun's path north or south comes to a stop before reversing direction.  Thus, the Summer Solstice is recognized June 21 – 24 each year. The dates are significant because it points to the time period when the sun it almost completely “still”. 


Stillness is the opportunity for us to take hold of our internal conditioning during this special time of the year.  Imagine if the Sun is still, then this means that the Universe is probably very quiet and deeply receptive.  And if that is the case, what a great time to communicate our intentions into this stillness.  

This is exactly what our ancestors did – Africans, Mayans, Indians – all of the ancients knew that if the Universe is slowing down, then we should also.  Now here is where it gets tricky.  You have been made to believe that Christmas is about you shopping and buying all the presents you have, (or don’t have). the money to buy. You are hustling and bustling, wearing your energy down without a clue about the vibration you are putting out into your spiritual vortex.

"Go In"
 Oh Wise Ones, may I suggest that we get back to the business of soul nurturing, so that we can at least maintain some balance as we co-exist in this world of duality.  It has been my practice for the pass 20 yrs to practice fasting, deep meditation, sleep, solitude (no television), and study during that four-day period.  Even when my children were younger we shared space together in this manner.  Think of it like a soul recalibration process where you are allowing yourself to tune into the higher aspects of your being.

At Master Force we have created a yearly teleconference to support you preparing for the Winter Solstice.  Visit our website and find out how you can participate in this year's event -  The Healing Arts Teleconference.  You may also listen to previous discussions on IGNITE YOUR SOUL CONNECTION.

It is always our intention to increase our spiritual aptitude, through the courses and information we offer via our online academy. I invite you to visit us and register your email so that we can update you on our events, courses, activities and articles – The Master Force.

Suggested Activities for the Upcoming Winter Solstice
Relax, Renew, Regenerate, Reveal





  1. Meditate with a group of like minded people, daily if possible. 
  2. Detox and or Fast from food, alcohol, etc to give your digestion a break
  3. Catch up on those heavy hitting books you have been meaning to read or listen to.
  4. Rest, sleep and nurture the energy of your mate/your family/your self.
  5. Practice silence and solitude (Classical music is great for this)
  6. Generate a creative project you can do alone (Write a book, poem, paint, etc,)
  7. Practice Yoga, QiGong or Tai Chi as well.

Thank you for reading my blogpost.
Mu Shemsu-t

Friday, August 17, 2012

'Awaken To Your Twin Flame - Part Two


"Lovers do not finally meet somewhere ~They are in each other all along." -- Rumi


"Is your heart open, light and accepting?"

We started this conversation more than 18 months ago, when I was personally thrust into what seemed like a centrifugal  force of emotional, spiritual and leadership expansion.  The Universe was clearly moving me into a space, to acknowledge where I needed to be,  which is the path of service and authentic self-expression.  During this period of time, it has been eye opening, while surrendering to exotic depths of joy and enthusiasm for life; indulging, without losing my sense of self.  So now, as we look at the next points of this conversation, I have even more compassion for those of us who are intertwined with our Twin Flames, and also those of us who are still seeking to find them. May we continue . . .


4.  Your Heart Must Be Open - Many of us have had the opportunity to meet some pretty amazing people in our lives. Many of those connections were with our SOUL MATES, who assist us in touching base with our inner denial, and helping to stir our internal flame.  How many times has your lover made you believe they were the one?  Only to find out, that the relationship was mostly superficial and lustful to say the least.  However, we had to make their acquaintance, to begin a journey to deal with the emotional issues we needed to resolve from our childhood, and for many of us, our past lives.

As African-Americans, we have so many layers that we must recover from, for us to begin to realize that we are love.  Unfortunately, we have been taught to seek validation from outside ourselves.  We place our value on things and people, that have no sense of who we are, as a person.  Subsequently, very few of us have spent time dealing with matters of the heart. According to an article written by Norma Hicks, there are 12 levels of the heart that we must awaken; and right now, most of us are just at the 3rd and 4th levels - (http://www.esotericonline.net/profiles/blogs/levels-of-the-fourth-chakra). As we move through this Earth Plane, we are learning more about what it actually means to be a participant in this thing called life. And as we partner with our Twin Flames, we have the opportunity to automatically enhance our capacity to grow and expand, into the next version of our highest self.

5. Building Together - As you read the points in this article, you can see by now that what is most prevalent about meeting our Twin Flame, has to do with the work we can get done together, in a much easier and more efficient manner.  Let us not be mistaken about what this work looks like.  We are not here to see how many houses we can build, or how much money we can make or how many children we can have.  Our work is about the Soul, and the Soul is all about Love.  

I rarely meet couples that radiate love.  It seems like they want to demonstrate how beautiful they look together, or how obedient their children are, or how polished their home and furnishing appear; yet nothing of this has to do with being love. The true essence of love, doesn't need anything, it just is.

In this case, the building we are emphasizing, has to do with the work that we can do inside our family, our community, our society, as well as taking care of Mother Earth. These are the aspects of living, that have been neglected over time. Now, we have the presence of mind to join forces and remember who we are and why we are here in the first place.


6. Free To Be - The energy of Twin Flames operate from a base of one, therefore, if we have worked through our own emotional wounds, we wouldn't have to possess, control and dominate our relationships.  It has been my experience that many Twin Flames tend to meet when they have are already in a relationship. They tend to start out being confused, as to why they would meet someone when they are already with a life partner.

When this happens, there is a very wonderful opportunity to work out what is best for all parties involved.  It's a chance to demonstrate delayed gratification, consideration and kindness, which are all higher aspects of our personality.  When we are able to pull back and truly look at situations and weight the outcomes, only then can we truly get past the lower energy vibrations, that keep us locked in the bottom regions of our chakras.

Granting others their own personal freedom is the hallmark of Twin Flame relationships. Simply because, it is natural that every single time, they will find a way to be with one another.  And even still, it takes time to mature into the space of true freedom, where love is concerned.  Therefore, take your time and be patient with yourself and the development of the relationship.



[Next Article: "Awaken to Your Twin Flame" - Part Three. We will embark on points 7-10.]

If you are currently experiencing any heartache, or emotional distress regarding a breakdown in your relationship, here are a few remedies to help you balance your energy and your emotions.

  • St. Johns Wort Tea is a herbal infusion that will help to bring your energy up and relieve any feelings of sadness or depression.  You can usually find it any place that you find healing teas and herbs.
  • Bach Flower Remedies - Pine to deal with regret, resentment and forgiveness and Agrimony which relates to the ability to feel joyfulness and the enhance your ability to confront others.  You can find these products at any health food store or online.
  • Talk to someone that can be objective and listen for your need to release and expand.
  • I highly recommend the book, "Spiritual Partnerships" by Gary Zukav

Thank you for reading my blog.  Love and Light to you . . . We are ascending!


Rita Stewart/Mu Shemsu-t
Executive Life Coach
mut@masterforceinc.com
773-969-6211

Monday, January 31, 2011

Awaken to Your Twin Flame - Part One


This topic will be written in three-parts.

“Where have you been? I have been searching for you for lifetimes. I finally found you.  I had to slay dragons to find you, you know.  And if anything happens, I will find you again.”  

- Twin Souls: Finding Your True Spiritual Partner – Patricia Joudry


According to Eric Hughes in his blog "Inner Flame Astrology" he writes:

"The Age of Aquarius is not a mythical concept by any stretch of the imagination. In fact, the world is currently in the beginning stages of this exciting new period in human history."

And while this may be an exciting time, it is also a very trying time as many of us make strong attempts to balance ourselves inside the paradigm shifts that are showing up in how we relate to one another.  It has been said that this is the time that many of us will find our Twin Flames. Are you ready?

This past year has been the greatest personal demonstration of the constraints and resistance I have to loving and being loved. Now after being broken (expanded) by that process here are a few things I learned that I would like to share with you. It is my intention that this information is both healing and nurturing to your soul as we prepare and awaken for our twin flame.  Here are ten pointers that I believe will assist you in this process:

1. He/She is Our Mirror – It amazes me that I have been sharing this basic information with my clients for over 18 years now and finally it hit home the way an arrow would pierce your heart.  You are always attracting yourself whether you are conscious of who you are of not.  So when the person you are sharing time with begins to irritate you, this becomes the perfect time to take a deep look within yourself and notice how you choose not to accept yourself just as you are.  The first sign that you have to “run” is your indication that you are avoiding doing the work that your soul is attempting to bring about inside of your current energy base.
 
An energy base is established when two individuals have sexual intercourse and their cells become intermingled with one another.  This is what true marriage is in the radiation of life according to how the Uni-Verse witnesses our existence together.  So when this energy base is formed everything begins to work for the growth and the progress of the union. However, what shows up first is the complete unloving nature that both individuals have come together to heal.  What you are witnessing in your mate is yours to bless, heal, accept and bring to balance within yourself.  Your partner is your mirror and the universe is showing you both your divinity and your devil.

2. Spiritual Sexuality – Let us examine a little deeper the “energy base” I alluded to in the above paragraph.  Many of us have a great misconception about love and we believe that we can turn it off and on at will depending on whether we are happy or sad inside our relationships.  When you have a sexual experience with someone you have tied your energy with them forever because your vibration has been changed when you added them to your cellular composition. 



When people come together and truly operate with a base of integrity they will begin to reap the benefits of exponential blessings and delight.  You cannot “cheat” inside of that composition because the heavens are so committed to your growth and development that your mirror (your partner) will be taken care of, even if you do not have the maturity to honor the energy of coupling.

Spiritual sexuality is the overstanding that comes with knowing how your vibration is the sounding fork that sends your message into the world.  It has been proven that time with your loved one heals your pain within 45 minutes of being in their presence.  However, when you have multiple partners you have no way of being able to tap into this source because you have halted your connection by confusing the channels of distribution.  You have energy pinging from one person to another without any solid means of providing or reaping benefits from either.  Your life, and theirs, literally become a standstill.

If your words, actions and truths are not aligned with your deepest intentions then the universe will bring to light everything that compromises the integrity of the union.

Relationships that end in drama and anger are not over for either of the parties.  Every union is about moving us closer to the love of ourselves and the truth of that reflection is in how we love others. A pure heart is only full of love; anger is the impetus to bring this to fruition.


3. Healing - Your relationships are designed to bring to light any issue that has not been resolved from your childhood.  In the metaphysical community it has been observed that it takes approximately two (2) years for couples to successfully work through and heal the unsettled components of our relationships with our parents.  When people flee relationships without taking time to understand their patterns, they can only repeat them with the next person.


If each of us would bring this understanding to the table we would operate with a greater sense of compassion, patience and tolerance for one another. When you leave your mate because you felt they were unloving toward you, you may want to examine how you are unloving to yourself.  Consider that your partnership is all about you becoming the best version of yourself.  The only responsibility you can take is that for yourself.  Each of us must choose the path of healing for us to open and receive this gift from one another.


"When you accept and love the parts of yourself you want to reject or change, you create an opportunity to discover the positive force behind them."  Leonard Laskow, Physician and Healer



[Next week: "Awaken to Your Twin Flame" - Part Two. We will embark on points 4 - 6.]


If you are currently experiencing any heartache or emotional distress regarding a breakdown in your relationship, here are a few remedies to help you balance your energy and your emotions.



  • St. Johns Wort Tea is a herbal infusion that will help to bring your energy up and relieve any feelings of sadness or depression.  You can usually find it any place that you find healing teas and herbs.

  • Bach Flower Remedies - Pine to deal with regret, resentment and forgiveness and Agrimony which relates to the ability to feel joyfulness and the enhance your ability to confront others.  You can find these products at any health food store or online.

  • Talk to someone that can be objective and listen for your need to release and expand.

  • I highly recommend the book, "Spiritual Partnerships" by Gary Zukav



Thank you for reading my blog.


Rita Stewart/Mu Shemsu-t
Transformation Life Coach


www.mushemsu-t.com
www.masterforceinc.com

Saturday, July 24, 2010

Love Making Kundalini


WARNINGWhat you are about to read is designed to change the way you view sexual activity for the remainder of your life.  I recommend that you read through this article at least twice and then share it with your mate.  Sex is a very pleasurable experience and the unfortunate part is that most of us miss the magic that is the truth hidden within the pleasure.  Enjoy!
About 15 years ago I began teaching a class called “The Magic of Kundalini”.  Sometimes it was offered for couples and other times it was presented to single women who were on a mission toward spiritual cultivation.  At that time I also began to notice how music videos cheapened sex and created excitement around sexual arousal causing many of our young people to want to participate in the experience without understanding the its power.
Imagine that sex is such a powerful act that the most ultimate creation is manifested; two people generate a likeness of themselves.  Now that is absolutely awesome!  However, we can harness this very same creative juice to manifest empires and New Worlds.  And it’s just as simple as overstanding the kundalini energy.  Many people in the elite class use these practices for their benefit and now it’s time for us to use this same juice to maximize the dreams and goals we are choosing to manifest in the world.
Let us start by overstanding the difference between ordinary sexual activity and tantric sex:

Ordinary sex: For most people the sex act is a release of tension. If a man feels an overflow of sexual energy, he usually wants to release it as quickly as possible in order to relax. However, if he ejaculates, there will be a waste of energy.
Tantric sex: When the sexual act is practiced with meditative awareness and without loss of the seminal fluids, there is no loss of energy, and the act is not followed by fatigue and a feeling of the blue. On the contrary, following the Tantric sexual act vital energy is multiplied and conserved. When both partners melt with each other, vital energy is exchanged between the masculine and the feminine, and the energy build to higher levels. 
The Indian master Osho says: 'If you are not in a hurry to finish the act, it by and by becomes less sexual and more spiritual. Sex organs also melt into each other. A deep silent communion happens between two body energies, and then you can remain for hours together. This togetherness moves deeper and deeper as time passes. But don't think. Remain with the moment deeply merged. It becomes an ecstasy, a samadhi, cosmic consciousness' (Osho: Book of Secrets, p. 468). 

Don’t get me wrong; sex is not the only way to raise this energy.  There are several ways to raise kundalini – dancing, exercise, sports, and praising are a few that come to mind immediately.  Each of these activities can be done alone or with others.  To fully utilize the power of the kundalini energy one must be present and in the energy of the desired outcome they wish to manifest. 

Love making kundalini offers several different components of manifestation that aren’t available in the individual or group effort.  The couple has the opportunity to create together the vision they wish to bring forward through their relationship.  Once the vision is shared, the energy of love adds exponential power, then pleasure adds another level of power and now you multiply that by two.  Depending on the energy of the couple, miracles can happen almost immediately.


What is so interesting about the time period that we are currently living through is that so many of us have been able to link up with our twin flame which provides an even greater power to use kundalini energy for manifesting desired outcomes.  Just imagine how much fun we could all have visualizing peace in our communities, then making love to someone that we adore and then step outside a few hours later to a community of calm.  We definitely have the power to do this while at the same time creating material comfort and fulfilling lifestyles.  The only obstacle we must get beyond is the outdated conditioning that our minds have been inundated with through media, education and our childhood environment.





Just in case you may need assistance developing goals for your relationship here are a few to get you started:

  • My partner and I provide love and assistance to our circle of family and friends.

  • My partner and I experience material wealth so that we are able to live full and creatively.

  • My partner and I embody the power to heal and teach others.

  • My partner and I are capable of achieving outstanding results in all that we endeavor.

  • My partner and I experience love, joy, forgiveness and healing in every aspect of our relationship including our circle of family and friends.
For those of you interested in becoming well versed in this subject matter here are a few books I highly recommend:

  1. The Tao of Health, Sex and Longevity by Daniel Reed
  2. The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Dr. Joseph Murphy
  3. How to Build Your Sexual Muscle by Walter Beckley