'Awaken To Your Twin Flame - Part Two

"Lovers do not finally meet somewhere ~They are in each other all along." -- Rumi

"Is your heart open, light and accepting?"

We started this conversation more than 18 months ago, when I was personally thrust into what seemed like a centrifugal  force of emotional, spiritual and leadership expansion.  The Universe was clearly moving me into a space, to acknowledge where I needed to be,  which is the path of service and authentic self-expression.  During this period of time, it has been eye opening, while surrendering to exotic depths of joy and enthusiasm for life; indulging, without losing my sense of self.  So now, as we look at the next points of this conversation, I have even more compassion for those of us who are intertwined with our Twin Flames, and also those of us who are still seeking to find them. May we continue . . .

4.  Your Heart Must Be Open - Many of us have had the opportunity to meet some pretty amazing people in our lives. Many of those connections were with our SOUL MATES, who assist us in touching base with our inner denial, and helping to stir our internal flame.  How many times has your lover made you believe they were the one?  Only to find out, that the relationship was mostly superficial and lustful to say the least.  However, we had to make their acquaintance, to begin a journey to deal with the emotional issues we needed to resolve from our childhood, and for many of us, our past lives.

As African-Americans, we have so many layers that we must recover from, for us to begin to realize that we are love.  Unfortunately, we have been taught to seek validation from outside ourselves.  We place our value on things and people, that have no sense of who we are, as a person.  Subsequently, very few of us have spent time dealing with matters of the heart. According to an article written by Norma Hicks, there are 12 levels of the heart that we must awaken; and right now, most of us are just at the 3rd and 4th levels - (http://www.esotericonline.net/profiles/blogs/levels-of-the-fourth-chakra). As we move through this Earth Plane, we are learning more about what it actually means to be a participant in this thing called life. And as we partner with our Twin Flames, we have the opportunity to automatically enhance our capacity to grow and expand, into the next version of our highest self.

5. Building Together - As you read the points in this article, you can see by now that what is most prevalent about meeting our Twin Flame, has to do with the work we can get done together, in a much easier and more efficient manner.  Let us not be mistaken about what this work looks like.  We are not here to see how many houses we can build, or how much money we can make or how many children we can have.  Our work is about the Soul, and the Soul is all about Love.  

I rarely meet couples that radiate love.  It seems like they want to demonstrate how beautiful they look together, or how obedient their children are, or how polished their home and furnishing appear; yet nothing of this has to do with being love. The true essence of love, doesn't need anything, it just is.

In this case, the building we are emphasizing, has to do with the work that we can do inside our family, our community, our society, as well as taking care of Mother Earth. These are the aspects of living, that have been neglected over time. Now, we have the presence of mind to join forces and remember who we are and why we are here in the first place.

6. Free To Be - The energy of Twin Flames operate from a base of one, therefore, if we have worked through our own emotional wounds, we wouldn't have to possess, control and dominate our relationships.  It has been my experience that many Twin Flames tend to meet when they have are already in a relationship. They tend to start out being confused, as to why they would meet someone when they are already with a life partner.

When this happens, there is a very wonderful opportunity to work out what is best for all parties involved.  It's a chance to demonstrate delayed gratification, consideration and kindness, which are all higher aspects of our personality.  When we are able to pull back and truly look at situations and weight the outcomes, only then can we truly get past the lower energy vibrations, that keep us locked in the bottom regions of our chakras.

Granting others their own personal freedom is the hallmark of Twin Flame relationships. Simply because, it is natural that every single time, they will find a way to be with one another.  And even still, it takes time to mature into the space of true freedom, where love is concerned.  Therefore, take your time and be patient with yourself and the development of the relationship.

[Next Article: "Awaken to Your Twin Flame" - Part Three. We will embark on points 7-10.]

If you are currently experiencing any heartache, or emotional distress regarding a breakdown in your relationship, here are a few remedies to help you balance your energy and your emotions.

• St. Johns Wort Tea is a herbal infusion that will help to bring your energy up and relieve any feelings of sadness or depression.  You can usually find it any place that you find healing teas and herbs.

• Bach Flower Remedies - Pine to deal with regret, resentment and forgiveness and Agrimony which relates to the ability to feel joyfulness and the enhance your ability to confront others.  You can find these products at any health food store or online.

• Talk to someone that can be objective and listen for your need to release and expand.

• I highly recommend the book, "Spiritual Partnerships" by Gary Zukav

Thank you for reading my blog.  Love and Light to you . . . We are ascending!

Rita Stewart/Mu Shemsu-t

Executive Life Coach

mut@masterforceinc.com
773-969-6211

www.mushemsu-t.com

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Awaken to Your Twin Flame - Part One

This topic will be written in three-parts.

“Where have you been? I have been searching for you for lifetimes. I finally found you.  I had to slay dragons to find you, you know.  And if anything happens, I will find you again.”  

- Twin Souls: Finding Your True Spiritual Partner – Patricia Joudry

According to Eric Hughes in his blog "Inner Flame Astrology" he writes:

"The Age of Aquarius is not a mythical concept by any stretch of the imagination. In fact, the world is currently in the beginning stages of this exciting new period in human history."

And while this may be an exciting time, it is also a very trying time as many of us make strong attempts to balance ourselves inside the paradigm shifts that are showing up in how we relate to one another.  It has been said that this is the time that many of us will find our Twin Flames. Are you ready?

This past year has been the greatest personal demonstration of the constraints and resistance I have to loving and being loved. Now after being broken (expanded) by that process here are a few things I learned that I would like to share with you. It is my intention that this information is both healing and nurturing to your soul as we prepare and awaken for our twin flame.  Here are ten pointers that I believe will assist you in this process:

1. He/She is Our Mirror – It amazes me that I have been sharing this basic information with my clients for over 18 years now and finally it hit home the way an arrow would pierce your heart.  You are always attracting yourself whether you are conscious of who you are of not.  So when the person you are sharing time with begins to irritate you, this becomes the perfect time to take a deep look within yourself and notice how you choose not to accept yourself just as you are.  The first sign that you have to “run” is your indication that you are avoiding doing the work that your soul is attempting to bring about inside of your current energy base.

 

An energy base is established when two individuals have sexual intercourse and their cells become intermingled with one another.  This is what true marriage is in the radiation of life according to how the Uni-Verse witnesses our existence together.  So when this energy base is formed everything begins to work for the growth and the progress of the union. However, what shows up first is the complete unloving nature that both individuals have come together to heal.  What you are witnessing in your mate is yours to bless, heal, accept and bring to balance within yourself.  Your partner is your mirror and the universe is showing you both your divinity and your devil.

2. Spiritual Sexuality – Let us examine a little deeper the “energy base” I alluded to in the above paragraph.  Many of us have a great misconception about love and we believe that we can turn it off and on at will depending on whether we are happy or sad inside our relationships.  When you have a sexual experience with someone you have tied your energy with them forever because your vibration has been changed when you added them to your cellular composition. 

When people come together and truly operate with a base of integrity they will begin to reap the benefits of exponential blessings and delight.  You cannot “cheat” inside of that composition because the heavens are so committed to your growth and development that your mirror (your partner) will be taken care of, even if you do not have the maturity to honor the energy of coupling.

Spiritual sexuality is the overstanding that comes with knowing how your vibration is the sounding fork that sends your message into the world.  It has been proven that time with your loved one heals your pain within 45 minutes of being in their presence.  However, when you have multiple partners you have no way of being able to tap into this source because you have halted your connection by confusing the channels of distribution.  You have energy pinging from one person to another without any solid means of providing or reaping benefits from either.  Your life, and theirs, literally become a standstill.

If your words, actions and truths are not aligned with your deepest intentions then the universe will bring to light everything that compromises the integrity of the union.

Relationships that end in drama and anger are not over for either of the parties.  Every union is about moving us closer to the love of ourselves and the truth of that reflection is in how we love others. A pure heart is only full of love; anger is the impetus to bring this to fruition.


3. Healing - Your relationships are designed to bring to light any issue that has not been resolved from your childhood.  In the metaphysical community it has been observed that it takes approximately two (2) years for couples to successfully work through and heal the unsettled components of our relationships with our parents.  When people flee relationships without taking time to understand their patterns, they can only repeat them with the next person.


If each of us would bring this understanding to the table we would operate with a greater sense of compassion, patience and tolerance for one another. When you leave your mate because you felt they were unloving toward you, you may want to examine how you are unloving to yourself.  Consider that your partnership is all about you becoming the best version of yourself.  The only responsibility you can take is that for yourself.  Each of us must choose the path of healing for us to open and receive this gift from one another.


"When you accept and love the parts of yourself you want to reject or change, you create an opportunity to discover the positive force behind them."  Leonard Laskow, Physician and Healer

[Next week: "Awaken to Your Twin Flame" - Part Two. We will embark on points 4 - 6.]


If you are currently experiencing any heartache or emotional distress regarding a breakdown in your relationship, here are a few remedies to help you balance your energy and your emotions.

• St. Johns Wort Tea is a herbal infusion that will help to bring your energy up and relieve any feelings of sadness or depression.  You can usually find it any place that you find healing teas and herbs.

• Bach Flower Remedies - Pine to deal with regret, resentment and forgiveness and Agrimony which relates to the ability to feel joyfulness and the enhance your ability to confront others.  You can find these products at any health food store or online.

• Talk to someone that can be objective and listen for your need to release and expand.

• I highly recommend the book, "Spiritual Partnerships" by Gary Zukav

Thank you for reading my blog.


Rita Stewart/Mu Shemsu-t
Transformation Life Coach


www.mushemsu-t.com
www.masterforceinc.com

10 Ways to UnBully Our Children

Maybe the reason some of our children are attracting bully situations to themselves is because of the lack of love and self-acceptance they feel within. As parents and care takers of young souls it is imperative that we give them a clear picture of acceptance and self-worth, that is not based on them living up to our expectations.

These young souls are not here to please us, they are on a mission from God and part of their course is to teach us as adults how to love and be loved. Subsequently, to protect our own children from bullies, we need to first stop bullying them ourselves. Here are a few suggestions to assist us in eradicating these bully issues:

1. Treat your children the way you want to be treated.

2. Notice if you have a habitual way of being angry or resentful with your child.  Clean that up within yourself.

3. When you see your children, be present to love and appreciation as much as you can.  Coming from here always makes the relationship more peaceful and alluring.

4. Listen carefully and from the second level when your young person speaks to you.  What is the intention behind their words?  What are they not saying? How can you assist them?

5. Release yourself from any co-dependency you may have with your children.  This is especially true and challenging for single mothers.

6. It isn’t necessary for your children to live up to your expectations for their life, however it is quite helpful if we can assist them in finding their true life purpose and why they came through us in the first place.

7. If your child is angry and resentful look to determine if the stress is being created from your relationship with them. Do what you can to bring peace and balance to your home life.

8. Assist your child in finding inner security from the time that you spend together instead of from the things you give to them. Meditation is a good practice to do together, even if it’s only for 10 minutes once a week.

9. 10 years from now it really isn’t going to matter what grades your child has earned, unless of course you aren’t sharing time and love with them now.

10. Release your fears and allow your child to live and explore life on their terms.  Send them forward in divine light and protection.

~~ Love and Light!

Mu Shemsu-t
www.masterforceacademy.com
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