11 Ways to Become a "Prosperity Vortex" for Your Mate

1.     Create a Perpetual Space of Gratitude

What does it feel like to have a grateful disposition?  When the challenge of hurt has occurred, have you ever encountered any individual who seeks the opportunity to appreciate, instead of get angry?  Can you imagine what the energy would be like to share space with such a person?  This is the first step needed to create a Prosperity Vortex for you and your mate.  In order for energy to flow freely, there has to be peace; to create abundance add joy.

2.     Acknowledge Good Flow all the Time
Our daily practice is to notice how goodness is appearing in our life.  This can be very exciting because the more you pass the test, the more things are going to show up to make sure you have mastered it.  In other words, when your bills arrive in the mail, make this a joyous occasion.  Do you know what it means to have good standing in the Uni-Verse?  Being able to have goodwill associated with your name on all levels, open up more and more avenues for you to receive.  So pay Mr. Bill with great joy, and acknowledge how easy it is to sustain, maintain and take care of your family.  Never complain about money or finances to your mate.  If the flow is blocked, work on yourself to create an opening.

3.     Speak and Listen Like they Are your Best-Friend (they really are)

May we all reframe from FIXING one another, when we come together as a couple; work on yourself.  When you love someone, and if you have the opportunity to create a loving and living space with your Soul Mate or Twin Flame, create the space of acceptance, that allows them to grow and evolve freely at their own pace.  Allow them to have room to share with you, in the same capacity you give your best buddy.  This is going to take intentional effort sense many of us come from the belief that men and women can’t be friends.  In my own circle of love and light, my person has just as many men friends as I do women.  And I learn from all of them.

4.      Make a List of THEIR Top Qualities

What are the top qualities you admire and appreciate about your mate?  Keep them written down in a couple of different places so that you can use them as a diversion when you find yourself negatively focusing on his/her weaknesses.  We all have flaws and in many different areas.  However, if we spend all of our time pointing out what’s wrong, that will zap the energy right out of the vortex and create poverty instead of prosperity.

5.     Discipline your Mind to Seek the Positive 

SPLAT!!  Just like that, something happens and you are so full of anger, resentment and hostility.  Well according to ABRAHAM-HICKS* you have 17 seconds to move out of that negative vibration, before you signal the Uni-Verse that you want more of the same.  The practice that my person has learned to apply in this particular situation is to breathe and focus on what is hurting me in the present moment?  When we focus on what hurts, with the intention of bringing reasoning, logic and responsibility to the matter, the situation becomes a little easier to handle.  The key word in this process is to take responsibility for the part you played; no matter if you deem it as you fault or not.  "The 17 Second Rule

6.     Create a Daily, Weekly, Monthly, and Yearly "Wealth Ritual"

Make this a fun activity.  One thing that my second husband and I did on a regular basis was empty our coins into a jar at the end of the day.  Then during the year we would periodically do wealth meditations for about a week and then at the end of that time, take the contents of the jar to a place where someone could find it.  There are other things you can do as well.  Get $50 worth of singles and place dollar bills inside books at the library.  Doing this in the children’s section is fun.  Leave an enormous tip when the two of you go out on a date together when your vibrations are high, loving and magnanimous.  Tithing is a weekly ritual and it doesn't necessarily have to be to a church.  Who feeds you spiritually?  The premise here is the intention you bring to this process, and that you do it together.  Also, make sure you have money set aside to splurge on a luxurious vacation for the two of you. Wow!  I can feel the flow increase already; can you? More ideas:

a.  Create a Financial Vision Statement and Read it together regularly
b.  Make a song together (Mantra) and sing it to keep out of negative flow
c.  Design Sacred Alters (together or individually) for your Visions and Dreams
d.  Create Vision Boards together, they are highly effective

7.     Be of SERVICE to Your Mate Without Expecting Anything in Return.

Now to make this happen you have to take total responsibility for your own well being.  You will need to know how to generate your own energy to the point that you don’t need anything from your mate.  Yet, everything they give is like gravy.  Too often people think that a relationship is about what the other person is providing, when actually it's about your capacity to be generous.  If you can’t give and receive freely to your mate, then you are creating a negative flow in your relationship.  Maybe you need to make sure you are with the right person for you.

8.     Surround them with a Golden Light of Prosperity**

This may seem a little advanced; however we are sending energy and vibrations to one another all the time.  With this process we literally take on raising our own vibration and then visualize our mates being surrounded by an image of prosperity that has them lit up from head to toe, on the inside and out. **Golden Light of Protection Article by Mu Shemsu-t

9.     Generate High Vibes when they are Pre-Occupied

It’s interesting to see how so many of us feel so deprived when our mates are focusing on things they love, that may not have anything to do with us.   The idea here is that often times we have projects, assignments, jobs, and even work that requires us to be away for extended periods of time.  This is where you can demonstrate how emotionally and spiritually mature you are.  If you feel the need to always have company when your mate is not around, then you need to do more work on loving yourself.  You may want to start with getting to know yourself a little better ,so that you can appreciate yourself from a higher vibration.  Also, at what capacity are you living, that you have to focus so much energy on what someone else is doing, instead of what you are doing? I am not talking about other love interests (that’s an out of integrity conversation, which tends to block the flow).

10. Provide a Soft Spot When They Fall

Do you remember when you made the biggest mistake in your life?  Was there someone around to support you, comfort you, listen to you, and cry with you?  If not, then you know what that feels like, so create the opposite for your mate.  Many of us could go through life challenges much easier, if we just had someone to hear our side of the story and help us search for, and find the silver lining. Are you willing to be that for your mate?  This type of vortex would create boundless prosperity for many generations to come.

11. Write Love Notes, Letters,  and Poems to One Another

And finally, the written word is proof that love flowed through you to them.  If you haven’t written love notes to your mate, and something happens that take you out of one another’s vortex, then it would be even more challenging, to remember the love that you created together.  Find every reason to write them.  And please don’t wait for Hallmark Holidays.  Your spirit is always reminding you of their love, so why not be vulnerable enough to say so? Any excuse, will do just fine.

Here are other alternatives to stimulate your Prosperity Vortex:

1.     Meditate together

2.     Read to one another

3.     Bathe each other

4.     Massage one another

5.     Breathe together

6.     Dance together

7.     Increase spontaneity

8.     EFT together

9.     Play time is all the time

10. Spiritual Sexuality”  Love Making Kundalini by Mu Shemsu-t

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If you would like to speak with an Executive Life Coach at this time, feel free to call Rita Stewart at 773-969-6211.  Rates due apply.  Or visit her website at www.mushemsu-t.com

De-Programming Violence

"Violence starts in the Womb."

As I begin to write this article, I realize it may be rather difficult for some of you to grapple with the concepts I am presenting here.  However, you can trust that it is written from the purest space of love that I can garner, as I have worked to deprogram myself from violence for many, many years.  Therefore, I highly recommend that you stay very conscious of your breath as you read this.  You may not be able to read it straight through, so be easy on yourself.  And by all means, do not use this to convince someone else of their need to deprogram, it's okay to do your own work, while expanding your own capacity to love.

When children grow up in a household where the adults are full of hate, resentment, anger and distrust, the vibration inside the home is filled with this as well.  By now, most of us get it when someone says to us, it's all about the energy.  So imagine this, a child in the womb is being inundated with the energy of the adult who is carrying them.  Have you ever felt your own violence when you lose your temper with someone?  How about when you curse other people out?  What about when you discipline a child out of anger?  All of this energy goes into the fluid matter of your body and carries that energy to the unborn child.  Mix that with the concerns the mother may have about her future, her safety or even her economic well being; all of those feelings go into the DNA structure of the unborn fetus and they begin to receive these vibrations soon after conception, according to Bruce Lipton in his book, The Biology of Belief.

Now as interesting as that may be, usually a child who is in a violent womb, is also born into a violent household.  They are then exposed to violent television shows, including cartoons, parents are violent disciplinarians, they see violence in their neighborhoods, it's all over the media and advertising and then they have violence in the classroom where teachers are yelling at them a majority of the day.  So let's do the math . . . If everything is energy and like attracts like then it is very easy that young people who have come from violent households, will tend to hang with friends who are violent.  Likewise, couples are equally matched in the vibration of violence even if one is the aggressor and the other the victim.

Do you see where I am going with this?  Each one of us who was bred in a household of violence, has to begin our own recovery process, if we are going to assist our children in not creating that same vibration in their off spring.  Generational violence escalates, when education of self is taken out of the equation as well.  

It took me many, many years to discover that I had a violent vibration because I had it masked inside of my sweet, calm demeanor that refused to get angry no matter what anyone did to me.  I had developed this coping capacity because I grew up in a household full of angry women that slapped, hit, beat, kicked, verbally insulted me on a DAILY basis.  In order to get away from the anger, I became as invisible as possible and extremely compliant.  I developed the "good girl" syndrome so that no one would find fault with me.  Over time, this saved me from a great deal of negative attention.  Actually, no one paid any attention to me at all and I pretty much was free to disappear when they were busy with the rest of their highly dysfunctional living.

It's time to turn off the TELE-Vision!

However, bullying at school started when I was in kindergarten.  All through grammar school someone picked a fight with me on a weekly basis.  I would go home bloody and beat up  mostly every Friday until about 6th grade, when a street crew came to my rescue and started picking me up to make sure I made it home safely.  In my defense, I began hanging out with a gang when I was 12 and took the name Lady Tres'.  This was the only way I was able to be safe in route to and from school.  Being with a group of guys most of the time, pretty much ended the bullying and I only had one other fight and that was in 7th grade.  

By the time I made it to middle school, I was living a double life.  I was very smart, getting all high marks in school, but I was drinking alcohol on a regular basis and smoking pot whenever I could get it.  I was intelligent, pretty and I loved to party, so I hung with the street kids most of the time.  In my neighborhood, most parents told their daughters I was too fast for them to be around.  Rejection was a huge part of my childhood experience, so when people left my life, I learned to deal with it by drinking and partying more.  However, I was still the Valedictorian of my 8th grade class and gave a wonderful speech at the graduation that my PE Teacher helped me to write.

I married violent men; all had violent mothers.  I thought it was because I didn't have a father and therefore didn't know what to look for in a husband.  And after years of research and working with clients in my coaching practice, I have come to see the vibration of violence inside of my refusal to acknowledge anger within myself.  It was as though I attracted these men to show me how to stand up for myself, and develop the strength of my own voice and take leadership over my life.  When I finally saw this, I apologized to each one of them for blaming them for knocking my teeth out, or contributing to my dozen of black eyes. I now know how to get angry as hell without throwing a temper tantrum or blaming someone else.

As a means to deprogram violence from my life, I stopped abusing myself in all areas that I could see abuse being present. Being a workaholic is a form of self abuse, not taking care of your physical is self abuse, having poor dietary standards is a form of self abuse, any habitual self destructive act is a form of self abuse -- alcohol, sex, marijuana, food, etc.  I took myself into a world wind of self care and high priority.  I am the most important person in my Universe and I choose to live in that manner.  If it isn't good for me, I don't do it, no matter how good it feels to me.  Now mind you, I still get my partying in, I just do it all in moderation.

I have come to unmask violence for myself in several different layers:

1. Violence in how we speak to ourselves and others is most harmful.

2. Emotional violence is withholding love from someone we care about.

3.  Physical violence is the most obvious.

4. Psychological violence occurs when we intentionally harm someone by lying, stealing, cheating, gossiping, etc.

5. Spiritual violence is used through the affects of religion as a means to control and manipulate another, thus hindering their spiritual growth.

6. Economic violence occurs when finances are used to maintain control over someone.

7. Educational violence happens when images, stories, and pictures are used to condition people to be a certain way, so they remain dependent on the people who are providing the education.

To deprogram violence we must move love to the highest frequency we can muster, within ourselves.  If you make the assumption of thinking that others are suppose to love you more than you love you, then you are setting yourself up for a huge let down.  Everyone else is here to take care of themselves, just like you are here to take care of  you.  When we become less violent toward ourselves, violence will automatically decrease against another which in turn will create less domestic and community violence.  And eventually, there will be less violence against Mother Earth and wars will end as well. And just imagine it all starts with you . . . One Love!

To gain an over standing of non-violent communication check out this video . . . http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=loABGdbOXU0&feature=related

To learn more about Deprogramming Violence from your life, we invite you to join us for a series of workshops and lectures beginning this fall.  For more information, send your inquiry to mushemsut@gmail.com.

If you would like to speak with an Executive Life Coach at this time, feel free to call Rita Stewart at 773-969-6211.  Or visit her website at www.themassterforce.com

De-Programming Violence

"Violence starts in the Womb."

As I begin to write this article, I realize it may be rather difficult for some of you to grapple with the concepts I am presenting here.  However, you can trust that it is written from the purest space of love that I can garner, as I have worked to deprogram myself from violence for many, many years.  Therefore, I highly recommend that you stay very conscious of your breath as you read this.  You may not be able to read it straight through, so be easy on yourself.  And by all means, do not use this to convince someone else of their need to deprogram, it's okay to do your own work, while expanding your own capacity to love.

When children grow up in a household where the adults are full of hate, resentment, anger and distrust, the vibration inside the home is filled with this as well.  By now, most of us get it when someone says to us, it's all about the energy.  So imagine this, a child in the womb is being inundated with the energy of the adult who is carrying them.  Have you ever felt your own violence when you lose your temper with someone?  How about when you curse other people out?  What about when you discipline a child out of anger?  All of this energy goes into the fluid matter of your body and carries that energy to the unborn child.  Mix that with the concerns the mother may have about her future, her safety or even her economic well being; all of those feelings go into the DNA structure of the unborn fetus and they begin to receive these vibrations soon after conception, according to Bruce Lipton in his book, The Biology of Belief.

Now as interesting as that may be, usually a child who is in a violent womb, is also born into a violent household.  They are then exposed to violent television shows, including cartoons, parents are violent disciplinarians, they see violence in their neighborhoods, it's all over the media and advertising and then they have violence in the classroom where teachers are yelling at them a majority of the day.  So let's do the math . . . If everything is energy and like attracts like then it is very easy that young people who have come from violent households, will tend to hang with friends who are violent.  Likewise, couples are equally matched in the vibration of violence even if one is the aggressor and the other the victim.

Do you see where I am going with this?  Each one of us who was bred in a household of violence, has to begin our own recovery process, if we are going to assist our children in not creating that same vibration in their off spring.  Generational violence escalates, when education of self is taken out of the equation as well.  

It took me many, many years to discover that I had a violent vibration because I had it masked inside of my sweet, calm demeanor that refused to get angry no matter what anyone did to me.  I had developed this coping capacity because I grew up in a household full of angry women that slapped, hit, beat, kicked, verbally insulted me on a DAILY basis.  In order to get away from the anger, I became as invisible as possible and extremely compliant.  I developed the "good girl" syndrome so that no one would find fault with me.  Over time, this saved me from a great deal of negative attention.  Actually, no one paid any attention to me at all and I pretty much was free to disappear when they were busy with the rest of their highly dysfunctional living.

It's time to turn off the TELE-Vision!

However, bullying at school started when I was in kindergarten.  All through grammar school someone picked a fight with me on a weekly basis.  I would go home bloody and beat up  mostly every Friday until about 6th grade, when a street crew came to my rescue and started picking me up to make sure I made it home safely.  In my defense, I began hanging out with a gang when I was 12 and took the name Lady Tres'.  This was the only way I was able to be safe in route to and from school.  Being with a group of guys most of the time, pretty much ended the bullying and I only had one other fight and that was in 7th grade.  

By the time I made it to middle school, I was living a double life.  I was very smart, getting all high marks in school, but I was drinking alcohol on a regular basis and smoking pot whenever I could get it.  I was intelligent, pretty and I loved to party, so I hung with the street kids most of the time.  In my neighborhood, most parents told their daughters I was too fast for them to be around.  Rejection was a huge part of my childhood experience, so when people left my life, I learned to deal with it by drinking and partying more.  However, I was still the Valedictorian of my 8th grade class and gave a wonderful speech at the graduation that my PE Teacher helped me to write.

I married violent men; all had violent mothers.  I thought it was because I didn't have a father and therefore didn't know what to look for in a husband.  And after years of research and working with clients in my coaching practice, I have come to see the vibration of violence inside of my refusal to acknowledge anger within myself.  It was as though I attracted these men to show me how to stand up for myself, and develop the strength of my own voice and take leadership over my life.  When I finally saw this, I apologized to each one of them for blaming them for knocking my teeth out, or contributing to my dozen of black eyes. I now know how to get angry as hell without throwing a temper tantrum or blaming someone else.

As a means to deprogram violence from my life, I stopped abusing myself in all areas that I could see abuse being present. Being a workaholic is a form of self abuse, not taking care of your physical is self abuse, having poor dietary standards is a form of self abuse, any habitual self destructive act is a form of self abuse -- alcohol, sex, marijuana, food, etc.  I took myself into a world wind of self care and high priority.  I am the most important person in my Universe and I choose to live in that manner.  If it isn't good for me, I don't do it, no matter how good it feels to me.  Now mind you, I still get my partying in, I just do it all in moderation.

I have come to unmask violence for myself in several different layers:

1. Violence in how we speak to ourselves and others is most harmful.

2. Emotional violence is withholding love from someone we care about.

3.  Physical violence is the most obvious.

4. Psychological violence occurs when we intentionally harm someone by lying, stealing, cheating, gossiping, etc.

5. Spiritual violence is used through the affects of religion as a means to control and manipulate another, thus hindering their spiritual growth.

6. Economic violence occurs when finances are used to maintain control over someone.

7. Educational violence happens when images, stories, and pictures are used to condition people to be a certain way, so they remain dependent on the people who are providing the education.

To deprogram violence we must move love to the highest frequency we can muster, within ourselves.  If you make the assumption of thinking that others are suppose to love you more than you love you, then you are setting yourself up for a huge let down.  Everyone else is here to take care of themselves, just like you are here to take care of  you.  When we become less violent toward ourselves, violence will automatically decrease against another which in turn will create less domestic and community violence.  And eventually, there will be less violence against Mother Earth and wars will end as well. And just imagine it all starts with you . . . One Love!

To gain an over standing of non-violent communication check out this video . . . http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=loABGdbOXU0&feature=related

To learn more about Deprogramming Violence from your life, we invite you to join us for a series of workshops and lectures beginning this fall.  For more information, send your inquiry to mushemsut@gmail.com.

If you would like to speak with an Executive Life Coach at this time, feel free to call Rita Stewart at 773-969-6211.  Or visit her website at www.themassterforce.com