"Lovers do not finally meet somewhere ~They are in each other all along." -- Rumi
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"Is your heart open, light and accepting?"
We started this conversation more than 18 months ago, when I was personally thrust into what seemed like a centrifugal force of emotional, spiritual and leadership expansion. The Universe was clearly moving me into a space, to acknowledge where I needed to be, which is the path of service and authentic self-expression. During this period of time, it has been eye opening, while surrendering to exotic depths of joy and enthusiasm for life; indulging, without losing my sense of self. So now, as we look at the next points of this conversation, I have even more compassion for those of us who are intertwined with our Twin Flames, and also those of us who are still seeking to find them. May we continue . . .
4. Your Heart Must Be Open - Many of us have had the opportunity to meet some pretty amazing people in our lives. Many of those connections were with our SOUL MATES, who assist us in touching base with our inner denial, and helping to stir our internal flame. How many times has your lover made you believe they were the one? Only to find out, that the relationship was mostly superficial and lustful to say the least. However, we had to make their acquaintance, to begin a journey to deal with the emotional issues we needed to resolve from our childhood, and for many of us, our past lives.
As African-Americans, we have so many layers that we must recover from, for us to begin to realize that we are love. Unfortunately, we have been taught to seek validation from outside ourselves. We place our value on things and people, that have no sense of who we are, as a person. Subsequently, very few of us have spent time dealing with matters of the heart. According to an article written by Norma Hicks, there are 12 levels of the heart that we must awaken; and right now, most of us are just at the 3rd and 4th levels - (http://www.esotericonline.net/profiles/blogs/levels-of-the-fourth-chakra). As we move through this Earth Plane, we are learning more about what it actually means to be a participant in this thing called life. And as we partner with our Twin Flames, we have the opportunity to automatically enhance our capacity to grow and expand, into the next version of our highest self.
5. Building Together - As you read the points in this article, you can see by now that what is most prevalent about meeting our Twin Flame, has to do with the work we can get done together, in a much easier and more efficient manner. Let us not be mistaken about what this work looks like. We are not here to see how many houses we can build, or how much money we can make or how many children we can have. Our work is about the Soul, and the Soul is all about Love.
I rarely meet couples that radiate love. It seems like they want to demonstrate how beautiful they look together, or how obedient their children are, or how polished their home and furnishing appear; yet nothing of this has to do with being love. The true essence of love, doesn't need anything, it just is.
In this case, the building we are emphasizing, has to do with the work that we can do inside our family, our community, our society, as well as taking care of Mother Earth. These are the aspects of living, that have been neglected over time. Now, we have the presence of mind to join forces and remember who we are and why we are here in the first place.
6. Free To Be - The energy of Twin Flames operate from a base of one, therefore, if we have worked through our own emotional wounds, we wouldn't have to possess, control and dominate our relationships. It has been my experience that many Twin Flames tend to meet when they have are already in a relationship. They tend to start out being confused, as to why they would meet someone when they are already with a life partner.
When this happens, there is a very wonderful opportunity to work out what is best for all parties involved. It's a chance to demonstrate delayed gratification, consideration and kindness, which are all higher aspects of our personality. When we are able to pull back and truly look at situations and weight the outcomes, only then can we truly get past the lower energy vibrations, that keep us locked in the bottom regions of our chakras.
Granting others their own personal freedom is the hallmark of Twin Flame relationships. Simply because, it is natural that every single time, they will find a way to be with one another. And even still, it takes time to mature into the space of true freedom, where love is concerned. Therefore, take your time and be patient with yourself and the development of the relationship.
[Next Article: "Awaken to Your Twin Flame" - Part Three. We will embark on points 7-10.]
If you are currently experiencing any heartache, or emotional distress regarding a breakdown in your relationship, here are a few remedies to help you balance your energy and your emotions.- St. Johns Wort Tea is a herbal infusion that will help to bring your energy up and relieve any feelings of sadness or depression. You can usually find it any place that you find healing teas and herbs.
- Bach Flower Remedies - Pine to deal with regret, resentment and forgiveness and Agrimony which relates to the ability to feel joyfulness and the enhance your ability to confront others. You can find these products at any health food store or online.
- Talk to someone that can be objective and listen for your need to release and expand.
- I highly recommend the book, "Spiritual Partnerships" by Gary Zukav
Thank you for reading my blog. Love and Light to you . . . We are ascending!
Rita Stewart/Mu Shemsu-t
Executive Life Coach
mut@masterforceinc.com
773-969-6211
773-969-6211
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